Ruin hath taught me thus to ruminante –
That time will come and take my love away.
This thought is as a death, which cannot choose
But weep to have that which it fears to lose.
Sonnet 64, 11-14
Portia: then confess
What treason there is mingled with your love.
Bassanio: None but that ugly treason of mistrust,
Which make me fear th’enjoying of my love,
The Merchant of Venice, 3.2.26-31
[A classical dictum] Non uti ut non appetas, non appetere ui non metuas,
Sunt animi pusilli et diffidentis [To abstain from the use of a thing that you may not feel a want of it; to shun the want that you may not feel the loss of it, are the precautions of pusillanimity and cowardice].
The Advancement of Learning (Spedding 3.427)
I will not use because I will not desire. I will not desire because I will not fear to want.
A Conference of Pleasure p. 5
Comment: Fearing to lose love was of course a commonplace. But to weep to have it in case you lose it suggests that Shake-Speare had in mind the philosophical conundrum of the Bacon texts. (The conundrum is said to have its source in Plutarch’s Life of Solon).